I remember when I first started dating my boyfriend, now husband. He was this shy and timid guy who was quite frankly, in his own lane. He will tell you from his own mouth that he just wasn’t looking for a girlfriend, and then BOOM!, there I was the girl of his dreams. OK, maybe he didn’t say it like that, but you get the point. Honestly as shy as my husband was he said the sweetest things to me to make me happy. He sad weird things too (side eye), but he’s a cool guy. So in light of all the special Holidays that come up in a year directed toward women I thought I would help some of my male readers out by giving you a list of sweet things to say to your girlfriend, not that you need it (insert another side eye).
These Sweet Things to Say to Your Girlfriend Will Win Her Heart
I love you– When the time is right and you have made it to that step in your relationship, tell your girlfriend that you love her as often as SHE needs. There is nothing wrong with having conversation about how often she may need to hear the words, “I Love you.”For me, sometimes I need to be reassured during difficult times. Find out what your mate likes.
How can I help you– I don’t care who you are or where you come from. Most women would like some type of help, or at least to be offered the help. I know some women are very head strong but you still need to offer her your help not matter what. This just simply shows her that you care and that you recognize her efforts. This is key no matter what stage your relationship is in.
Do you need something while I’m out– How many times has someone walked in where you where, and you saw a bag from a place they had been and you said, ” I wish you would have told me you were going to that store.” Calling or texting ahead does two things, it says I care about you and I’m concerned about your needs.
Call and say, “Hey I was thinking about you”– This one is simple, when looking for sweet things to say to your girlfriend, it doesn’t have to be “cheesy’ or sound overbearing. Every now and again call and tell her you were thinking of her. Giving a woman the assurance that in some part of your day you called to say this, shows that she is important to you.
You look beautiful today, I like( insert feature). I can’t tell you the thousands of men who have failed to realize something new that their significant other has done or bought to make themselves feel good, and her boyfriend didn’t notice. Or he simply didn’t say anything. Compliment your girlfriend because it matters and I said so. You will thank me later.
“Be ready at a certain time, I want to take you somewhere special”– Ahhhh this is one of my favorites. Even if your girlfriend doesn’t like surprises, trust me, she will love to know that you have planned something special without her having to help you do it. You get bonus points if you remember something she told you she wanted to do.
I appreciate what you do for me, thank you– Guys, simply say how you feel and let your lady know that you recognize even the most simple things that she does to show you she cares for you. Simple things matter. She would like to hear a simple….Thank you.
How was your day?– Lastly, when a woman has had a long day or a hard day, she would like to come home and relax. Most times she probably will not relax when she gets home. But there is something relaxing about your boyfriend or husband asking about your day in the mist of chaos that makes the day worth it. Just remember all she needs to know is that you care. See! Sweet things to say to your girlfriend is not like giving a kidney but it does take effort. Until next time…